More-of/Less-of

Today, I posted my week’s menu planning as a status update on Facebook. A friend commented back, mentioning that she also does her menu planning on Sunday nights and to check out this blog: http://menumommy.blogspot.com/. I figured it was a blog where moms met and talked about meal planning, and shared recipes. Lo and behold, however, this was my friend’s own blog complete with months’ worth of writing about meal planning, links to recipes, and comments from many people. I was amazed. And annoyed.

I looked to the top of the page, and saw that Blogger had signed me in under my old blog. I had not posted a new blog in months and months (nine to be exact). I always feel it is a slippery slope to put myself out there into cyberspace; I teach in a public school and am therefore not a private citizen. Still. My annoyance came from the fact that as I read my previous posts, I knew I could write more. Write better. Write now. With that in mind, I began to read my old posts.

As the New Year is still newborn, I looked to last year’s post on resolutions (republished below). So how did I do? I didn’t make the mark on 1, 3, 6, or 19. I tried 2, but ended up realizing I could get 21 without the ‘buy’ part. I don’t remember the Urban Bourbon Trail or why in God’s name I would do 13. I wish I could afford 14. And then there is 17.

I don’t like the idea of a Resolution. The kids I work with on our school debate team always have to debate resolutions. True—everything has a pro and con side, including my lists below. But maybe instead of saying I am ‘resolved’ to do something, I could just create a list against which I could measure my progress with more realistic shifts in behavior and attitude: there are things I would like to do more of, and things I would like to do less of. So, with that said, I introduce the first ever, 2010 edition of the ‘More-of/Less-of List.’

Less-of:
1. Cursing when it is not warranted (When someone nearly side-swipes you: Yes. When you can’t find a match to a sock: No.)
2. Procrastinating on the following: grading (I give myself a D for that nonsense) and starting big projects (our room).
3. Accepting mediocrity from myself or others around me (“The height of mediocrity is still low.” Vanna Bonta)


More-of:
1. Taking walks around the lake. (The ducks miss us.)
2. Making delicious, healthy meals (already off to a good start on this one).
3. Writing. (Like this.)

C-Me More

Last year’s Resolutions…
1. Walk my dogs on a regular basis.
2. Sell my house.
3. Curse less.
4. Eat more chocolate.
5. Drink less scotch.
6. Quit bullshitting so much.
7. Try harder not to break #3.
8. Avoid passive aggressive commentary in blogs.
9. Avoid yuppies.
10. There went #8.
11. Stop being so hard on self.
12. Tour the "Urban Bourbon Trail."
13. Throw a fun Kentucky Derby party.
14. Look for good deals to travel to California wine country.
15. Re-think #5.
16. Floss more regularly.
17. Be more timely with tasks (i.e. making New Year's resolutions on the 22nd of
January).
18. Judge less. Do more to be judged by.
19. Wii fit the hell out of my nasty-ass muffin tops.
20. Never, ever put #3 on list again.
21. Buy a nicer house.
22. Nevermind #21. That'll make me break #9.